A ROAD TO TRAVEL THROUGH

We must forgive our conflicting relations with those that are here no longer.

Let us overcome our egoism, that puts our pain, as the principal protagonist of the events.

Let us mourn with dignity. We can talk about our children, when we are in the company of people, who understand our pain.

Let us mourn in appropriate places.

We should try not isolate ourselves, returning to our usual way of life, in our society, accepting our own personal changes.

We might want to meditate on our Faith. Some of us might be comforted in the belief of an existence beyond death.

We should have a Project for the Future, that honors those that are no longer with us, and that honors those that are fortunately with us, today. By doing these things, we honor ourselves.

Let us try to dedicate ourselves with sensibility and love, to  those relations that are important to us, in this life.

We should not let our pain exclude us from being better persons.

The permanent memory of those that are no longer with us, must be a stimulus to achieve it.

The possibility of overcoming a mourning process, requires, only of our personal effort.  We cannot delegate it to any kind of paternalism.

Dr. Carlos Juan Bianchi   

 Dicember 17,  2002. .